I turned sixteen last month and I'm so grateful for the people who filled my celebrations with happiness and made it memorable! Big love :)
And I realised that through my few teenage years, I've actually learnt so much from my own experiences and others. So I've decided to share just 10 pieces of advice from 16 year old me.
1. Wearing a darker foundation shade doesn't make you looked tanned! You'll look like a strange carrot. DON'T DO IT!
2. If someone is bringing negativity into your life then let them go. Yes this is easier said than done, but once you finally say goodbye to misery, you will start saying hello to empowerment and happiness! You deserve the best! So surround yourself with others that support you and bring positive vibes.
3. There is always someone to talk to, even when you feel alone and helpless. No matter how difficult a situation might be, someone is out there ready to listen and assist. This might be a family member, friend, teacher or even a support worker. Never feel like you can't reach out when times get tough.
4. You can't wear everything. We all have different bodies and individual styles to suit us. The truth is not everyone can rock a midriff or a maxi dress. You need to look at what really compliments your figure and style, and not just buy the latest trends.
5. People will hurt you but you will overcome this. Life as a teen is not always fun and pretty. You will experience friendship troubles heartache, family issues and even problems with people you don't know! Keep your chin up high and power through like the strong independent person you are! Laugh at situations, compliment yourself and try your best to stay positive. You can't control the fact that people will be mean, but you can control how you react.
6. Waxing yourself will hurt more!
7. Life changes dramatically as a teenager. Your friendships will evolve, change and maybe even be destroyed. You'll experience physical and mental changes. You'll be placed in foreign situations that may be uncomfortable. And it's ok! It's normal! Overwhelming, yes. But not something to be afraid of.
8. It's ok to say no. If you are being pressured into something that makes you feel uneasy or unsure, then speak up for yourself! You should never be forced into something that makes you nervous and uncomfortable, and if the people you're with really care about you, they'll understand you're decision to back away.
9. Leading on from number 8, think before you speak/act. Words and actions can have huge consequences; you don't want to regret a silly mistake you made.
10. And finally, please fill in your brows beautifully and naturally. They do not need to be thick black caterpillars!
